Wow. This is one of the most entitled male-ego-centric statements I have ever heard, and it speaks to a lot of what’s currently wrong in our society. It’s 100% your choice — as it should be — to remain a virgin until marriage and that’s a great choice if it’s what you want! And if your partner is supportive of that then he definitely sounds like one of the ones worth holding on to! It’s amazing that you’re being true to yourself and that you’re speaking up about it. Thank you for being so honest, Gillian!